Isn't it sad that in today's day and age we have to basically screen and pick apart possible friends and possible lover's or mates... We cannot just meet someone and let fate take over... We simply cannot just fall in love blindly... Those that do usually end up in a early grave.
I met this guy a while ago... Talked with him wel...l for about a month... was from my home town area... pretty much was perfect on paper... Liked country music, drank coffee, and pretty much wanted a family and seemed to have the ideal mind set of what I was looking for. Well we even talked on the phone for quite a while. I really liked that he made time for my 3rd shifter butt... and would talk with me when he had the time during the day as well...
Ok, I am so not perfect so I am not looking for perfect.
So we finally meet... I had a whole day that I wanted to devote to doing things down in my home town area because it had been awhile since I had been around there and also a long time since I had a day off... So We met for breakfast early lunch and I was going to pay and he got upset about that... thats ok cause sometimes its nice to be taken out ya know... so I gave in. So no big deal. Went to his house so that we could take his car back and then went to pay a bill for him.
Then we went shopping and looking around and what not. You see I am a go with the flow type person. I really don't ever have a set thing that I wanna do because I am curtious to the other people that I am with so that if they want to do something they can say so and no big deal. As long as I don't have to give up my moral standing on whats happening... (remember this comment for later)
So we got gas and what not cause we drove around a bit and went to get coffee out in West Bloomfield and my favorite place. We sat and talked and I thought things we going well and that he and I were having a good time... and it was possibly looking like we were a good thing... So I lean in to try to give him the hint that its ok to kiss me but he ignores me! So we continue to talk and just have a good time and he is rambling on about something and I am ready to get going and then he kisses me and says that he had to MAKE me wait, and that it was a test basically. UGHHH I HATE ASSES LIKE THAT! I am not in fucking highschool anymore. So that irked me... can you tell?
So we went window shoppin again and then he made the suggestion that we should call my friends who lived close by and see if they wanted to get dinner with us... So I did and we went and picked them up and went to get Chinese... I LOVE CHINESE!
But the entire time all he did was talk to them... kinda ignoring me... and I couldn't get a word in edge wise.... And then he started in on talking about how guns are the answer to all his problems and that anyone who hurts him with get their heads blown off and how he comes up with unique ways to take people out... Or how he has all these connections... how he and his friends liked to kill some animals.. there is hunting and I am all down for that as long as the eat or donate the meat and what not... But this was pure madness....
And this was someone that I was considering spend a lot of time with not to mention having kids... So the jist of this story is that if people are going to be unstable... don't do it around me...
Oh and don't expect me to put out on the first date just because you fed me and so called wasted like 45 dollars on the day. I AM NOT A FUCKING WHORE.... and if I was... I would be way too expensive for your ass buddy!!! Besides I have morals and I WILL NOT FUCK YOU ON THE FIRST DATE. You are insane to think it will happen even 2 months after the first date...
Matter of fact you won't get any till you get your ass tested for everything under the sun... I have been through a scare with disease and I WILL NOT do it again...
Moral of the story ladies is trust no one till you go on the first date and after they hand you a piece of paper that states that they are completly clean of all nasty taint and disease! There is no better gift than knowing your partner is not gonna kill you in the end!
NO MAN IS WORTH THAT AGONY!! NO ONE IS.
Whiskey
I met this guy a while ago... Talked with him wel...l for about a month... was from my home town area... pretty much was perfect on paper... Liked country music, drank coffee, and pretty much wanted a family and seemed to have the ideal mind set of what I was looking for. Well we even talked on the phone for quite a while. I really liked that he made time for my 3rd shifter butt... and would talk with me when he had the time during the day as well...
Ok, I am so not perfect so I am not looking for perfect.
So we finally meet... I had a whole day that I wanted to devote to doing things down in my home town area because it had been awhile since I had been around there and also a long time since I had a day off... So We met for breakfast early lunch and I was going to pay and he got upset about that... thats ok cause sometimes its nice to be taken out ya know... so I gave in. So no big deal. Went to his house so that we could take his car back and then went to pay a bill for him.
Then we went shopping and looking around and what not. You see I am a go with the flow type person. I really don't ever have a set thing that I wanna do because I am curtious to the other people that I am with so that if they want to do something they can say so and no big deal. As long as I don't have to give up my moral standing on whats happening... (remember this comment for later)
So we got gas and what not cause we drove around a bit and went to get coffee out in West Bloomfield and my favorite place. We sat and talked and I thought things we going well and that he and I were having a good time... and it was possibly looking like we were a good thing... So I lean in to try to give him the hint that its ok to kiss me but he ignores me! So we continue to talk and just have a good time and he is rambling on about something and I am ready to get going and then he kisses me and says that he had to MAKE me wait, and that it was a test basically. UGHHH I HATE ASSES LIKE THAT! I am not in fucking highschool anymore. So that irked me... can you tell?
So we went window shoppin again and then he made the suggestion that we should call my friends who lived close by and see if they wanted to get dinner with us... So I did and we went and picked them up and went to get Chinese... I LOVE CHINESE!
But the entire time all he did was talk to them... kinda ignoring me... and I couldn't get a word in edge wise.... And then he started in on talking about how guns are the answer to all his problems and that anyone who hurts him with get their heads blown off and how he comes up with unique ways to take people out... Or how he has all these connections... how he and his friends liked to kill some animals.. there is hunting and I am all down for that as long as the eat or donate the meat and what not... But this was pure madness....
And this was someone that I was considering spend a lot of time with not to mention having kids... So the jist of this story is that if people are going to be unstable... don't do it around me...
Oh and don't expect me to put out on the first date just because you fed me and so called wasted like 45 dollars on the day. I AM NOT A FUCKING WHORE.... and if I was... I would be way too expensive for your ass buddy!!! Besides I have morals and I WILL NOT FUCK YOU ON THE FIRST DATE. You are insane to think it will happen even 2 months after the first date...
Matter of fact you won't get any till you get your ass tested for everything under the sun... I have been through a scare with disease and I WILL NOT do it again...
Moral of the story ladies is trust no one till you go on the first date and after they hand you a piece of paper that states that they are completly clean of all nasty taint and disease! There is no better gift than knowing your partner is not gonna kill you in the end!
NO MAN IS WORTH THAT AGONY!! NO ONE IS.
Whiskey
